It’s normal to think a little more than usual and expect the most unpredictable sort of highs. It’s ok to be disappointed sometimes because we are after all human beings who are latched to an emotional equation which is unique in every case. It’s normal to feel a little neglected and argue just a bit. It’s ok to confront and mess up a few relationships in hope for better ones. You cannot control the toil or emotions within you. You can only allow it to fade. Trust me. Every little feel fades with time because nothing is as good as the first time. Maybe you are disappointed in the early relationships of your life only to help your soul accept the fact that in most cases you won’t really get what you desire the most. You learn that expectations work two ways and the choices, preferences and happiness differ in almost all of them.
It’s actually not really hard to maintain a relationship. All it takes is to bring the mostly parallel desires in one space. Discuss the mutuality and sort the differences almost immediately. There should never be a question of giving up after the tiniest of argument. Rather there should always be an eagerness to close the roughness.
We are all made of different equations and it takes a good deal of maturity to accept that. Once we learn that the key to being more happy in our social lives is acceptance and a tad bit of patience perhaps our minds would resort to ideas that help us “deal” and not “sulk”
Ps: based on a prompt 🙂
Mizaj 
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